I love my son more than anything in this world... my parents dont know it.. coz they dont really understand what love is all about...
LOVE doesnt means when you throw a million dollar straight to you kids
LOVE doesnt means when you want you kids to love you.. remember you.. celebrate your birthday and parents day.. and buy such an expensive gift for you.. while you never even care about them...
LOVE doesnt means when you hit.. and slap your kids for some stupid reasons
LOVE means when you be there beside your kids.. when you love them.. when you cherish them.. and when you feel that they are your everything as you are their everything..
LOVE means when you want them to respect you.. you have to respect them first.. listen to what they want as they will do to you... not giving everything they need.. but make it possible for them to earn it.. from their afford
LOVE means hurt when you seem them cry or sad... and share the happiness when you see them smile...
I Dedicated all my life to my son.. as he is everything to me...
When i have a discussion with my parents... my parents did not agree to some of my stand.. my stand is easy... i love my son and i want him to be with me.. no matter what...
it might seem selfish right now.. coz all i care is my need.. i need my son to be with me... but if you could ask my son 10 years from now.. he will tell you.. that all he want in his life is his mommy ( parents).... not money.. not grandparents
Dont talk shit to me by telling me my son didnt know anything at this age ( 3 month).. you can i say i am wrong.. but i know he is developing his self confident.. trust and whatsoever.. from the people who is very close to him.. and dont you think that should be his mother..
I know to some might now understand and agree with me.. if i tell you i wanna bring my kid to sungai petani.. raise my kid on my own.. why struggle to finish my pre-law...and i tell you what.. i dont need none of you to understand me... coz i know what is right for me...
Dont take my son from me.. for i didnt take yours...
Dont let my happiness fade away..
Mr and Mrs Mazran
Benjamin Rayyan
The Blogger
- Engku Attilla
- I'm a proud mother of Three, Benjamin Rayyan, Aleesya Reyhana and Darris Ridhuan Raphael.. and a wife to lovely husband Mazran.
2 comments:
i agree! i am glad you know the value of mother - son bonding! :)good luck!
Memang susah kalau pemikiran mak ayah kita tak sama dengan kita. Orang zaman dulu, sometimes kolot dan salah macam mana pun, diorang tetap dengan pendirian mereka. Tak nak open minded untuk terima hakikat bahawa generasi zaman sekarang lebih bijak, berilmu dan berdikari untuk tentukan hidup sendiri.
Akak tak kenal parents Attilla. Tapi bila baca tulisan-tulisan Attilla, boleh rasa kekecewaan Attilla terhadap cara Attilla dibesarkan. And of course Attilla tak nak kesilapan yang sama berulang pada baby Benjamin, kan?
Akak doakan Attilla dapat sokongan kuat suami. Sebab kita berkongsi hidup dengan suami, dengan dialah kita nak meneruskan hidup kat dunia yang banyak cabaran ni. Kalau suami tak sokong kita, memang rapuh kita nak berjalan sorang-sorang, nak buat keputusan sendiri, nak tentukan hala tuju kehidupan kita.
Salam sayang untuk Attilla. Seronok dapat kenal dengan Attilla! :-)
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